Please use our contact form below if you want to get in touch with us, have any questions or want to leave us any feedback. If you are a member of the site, please provide your username so we can identify you faster.
Please read our FAQ before you use our contact form.
The best way to contact us is via the contact form at the bottom of the faq. Alternatively you can email us at admin@... . Either way.. please make sure you include your contact details, so we can get in touch.
You can also contact us via Laura D'Arcy on 07903 802 698 up
We'll be doing a bigger history and background in due course, I'm sure, but at the heart, we love helping people, having fun and are passionate about what we do. This website is a natural extension of that. up
Your username and password are case sensitive so need to be typed in with capital where appropriate. If you log in and get referred back to the login page again, make sure your browser privacy settings are not to high. This site does use cookies. If you are using Microsoft Internet Explorer set to "Medium High" or lower (Go to Tools>Internet Options>Privacy) . If you still get stuck.. get in touch, and include your contact number and username and we'll do our best to find a solution. up
Well.. congratulations you may be the first person in you area, or style.. This is actually good news, and means that people will find you more easily when they sign up.
We're also doing our best to get more members and more publicity for the site. (any ideas.. let us know)
Sometimes the search is too specific, so the best thing is to do simple search, clear all settings including the town and the postcode.
You also need to make sure you're setting your gender correctly (this stops evil spam robots). So please make you sure you put in your gender and the gender of the people you're looking for.
To help with your search, make sure you complete your profile and set your preferences as wide as possible.
Completing your profile will also help others find you, as people can filter who can find them, and the more detailed, the more chance of a match.
Also follow the tips on the search page for best results.
Again, feel free to get in touch and we'll help you out. up
Our members are nice people. If you find that someone is not being respectful etc.. then please let us know, with the "abuse" button. Alternatively if you simply want to nor receive any more of their messages you can use the block function found around the site but particularly in the annoying members profile.
Then they won't be able to contact you after unless you have given them external contact details - which we recommend you don't do until you feel comfortable etc.. - use your good judgement.
If they are persistent please advise admin so we can investigate and take further action where appropriate.
If you feel that someone is misusing the site please use the “Report abuse” button on their profile page, and will investigate and if necessary remove them.
We take our members and their well being very seriously. And so far we haven't had to action any of these things, but they are in place should the need arise.
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Log in, go to member services and following the cancel subscription link.
We'll be sorry to see you go.. but if that's what you really want, then that's fine :), but do let us know why and what we could do to keep you happy. We think of members as are friends, and it's never nice to lose a friend is it. up
If a member leaves, blocks you or decides to break the Terms and Conditions of the site (posting inappropriate pictures, harassment) then we delete their membership, when this happens everything that they are associated to also gets deleted. This also happens if they cancel their own account.
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From time to time people abuse the system, a curse of making it so friendly and easy to use. As soon as this is identified, those members are deleted and when this happens their unwanted emails are also removed. up
Yes, We are registered with the ICO. This is a UK body that record people and companies processing peoples data. Our Registration number is Z9692588. This should help you feel safe that we know what we're doing, and that your personal details will be dealt with properly.You can find out more at www.ico.gov.uk. up
For security reasons and to prevent spamming our members, you are only allowed to send a set number of messages in the first few days after your subscription. up